Friday, October 2, 2009

This is for you if you keep looking for perfection

We, who look for perfection at every facet, have to be used to live with problems and flaws.

A bad way to describe "look for perfection" is --- looking for risk-less way to do things due to low self-esteem. Risk-less is just impossible I would say.

Don't know if you share my thinking below. I do look for perfection, and at the same time I can find myself suffering from

1 - lack of confidence to progress
2 - unwilling (not declining) to accept suggestions or recommendations from peers (but willing to do so if s/he is respectable)
3 - (can't think more at this moment but I know there can be more to be listed here)

To be honest, I don't think I can fix the point 2 in my lifetime. So, I accept it, I wouldn't try to fix it, and just let it to be part of my personality.

I am practicing myself to life with problems and flaws, but with no success yet. Example include let a plan go even though I see there are problems ahead.

I find from my workplace that problems are just everywhere...... I hate that and I can't manged this well.

Ooo..... again I don't sleep in night....

2 comments:

  1. Health is owned by yourself ... and dun share your sadness to me ... if you have not got a GOOD health~!!!

    Repeat and repeat your sharing and you are still there... PLEASE overcome ... YOURSELF ... Noone can help you to overcome your sadness instead yourSELF!!!

    As your friend, we tried hard to push you up ... But you still STAY!

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